I’m having a Carrie Bradshaw (ala Sex and the City) moment.
How soon in a relationship should you rely on someone to do things for you? Such as take you to the airport, help you drop your car off for service, accompany you to social functions, etc. Somewhere the lines are fuzzy early on in a relationship. I think it depends on the experience of the members of the relationship. Some would assume that once you’ve decided to be a boyfriends/couple that you can rely on that person for those types of things. Others would argue that you should assume nothing and take each occurrence as they happen. I guess each event has it’s parameters that would dictate the rules governing such decisions. To be safe, it might be wise to assume nothing and work towards greater understanding and communication. For those of us who are literal, clarification is needed. I will seek clarification.