Second Date Update

The second date with B went very well last night. We had plans to go to Maggiano's for dinner and then back to my place to watch a DVD.

B got here a few minutes after 6. When I opened the door I was surprised. This wasn't the same guy I met last week. But he was. He started to grow a goatee since I last saw him and it looks really good on him. He's got dirty blonde hair and blue eyes. Maybe I hadn't noticed that before. Anyway, I showed him around my place and we chatted about our days and then we were off to dinner. We got to maggiano's and found out the wait was 1 1/2 hours. We were both hungry so we decided to bag Maggiano's and go to The Daily Grill. The Daily Grill was just down a flight of stairs. We were seated right away. I was pleased with that because I was starving! We both ordered wine and our meals. We had some good conversation. I mentioned in an earlier post that I wanted to learn more about him. I mentioned things I wanted to ask him. Some comments suggested I not come right out and ask these things. Well, I didn't need to. The conversation flowed easily and the topics I was interested in evolved on their own. We talked about recent boyfriends, relationships, our first loves, etc. From that conversation I learned that he is interested in a long term relationship…one that develops slowly over time. He's not into one night stands and knows what he wants out of life. I won't go into all the things we talked about but I did learn a lot more about him and I must say that I'm more interested now then I was after the first date. We both must have been nervous on the first date and didn't want to reveal too much I think. So dinner went well and we enjoyed the meal. The Daily Grill is a nice place if you haven't been there or if you don't want to wait for Maggiano's.

On the way home we stopped at TCBY for some frozen yogurt. It was good but we were both pretty full so neither of us finished. Then we went back to my place. I was stuffed so I changed into shorts. He made himself comfortable and picked out a DVD for us to watch. He picked Big Eden. I love this movie. He hadn't seen it before. So we got comfortable on the couch and watched the movie. I tired not to talk too much during the movie. I have been told by more then one boyfriend in the past that I talk too much during movies. I tried hard not to do that tonight. The movie was good of course and I think B enjoyed it as well.

When the movie was over, he said he should go home. He had to help a friend move today so he had to get up early. I understood. He said to give him a call and I will. We stole a few kisses and hugs on the way to the door and then he went home. I had a really good time on this date. It was much better then the first. And I'm sure there will be others.

P.S. I'm off to The Eagle tonight with Ken. I've never been there before! We're going to some fund raiser cookout thing. I'm not sure what it is exactly but with Ken things are usually fun. I WON'T be out late since it's a school night.

I Got Nuttin

I was going to write about how bad my porn collection is and how I want to get it all on DVD as well as several new titles but that post went limp.

I was going to write about the first week of school but it ended fine so there's nothing there.

I was going to write about Betty Butterfield and how I saw it on Zenleo's site (he's such a hottie) and Homer's site (another hottie) but I just checked and the site is down so that would be useless.

I was going to write about recent TV shows I've been watching but the shows are pretty stupid (like Joey).

I was going to write about the second date tomorrow night but I think you've read enough about that.

I was going to write about how I am determined to get through the book I am currently reading and have been reading for a long time. But I'll write about that when I actually finish the book.

I was also going to write about how boring it is to read on other blogs how they couldn't think of anything to write. But like this post, that sucks.

So, I got nuttin'. I need inspiration. I need a muse. Nuff said.

A Second Date

So I have a second date on Saturday night. The date is with B. He's the guy I had a first date with last week. On our first date we went to dinner and then back to his place to watch some TV and well, um, you know. We didn't get into any deep discussions and I actually don't know all that much about him. I mean, I know the basics but nothing of any substance. I don't know anything about his relationship history (I totally avoided that conversation) or his stance on politics, etc.

Our second date will be out for dinner again and then back to my place to see a DVD. I'll let him pick the movie. I hope to find out more things about him on this date. I already know he's a nice guy but I'd like to find more things we have in common, about his politics, his views on issues, and how he loads his dishwasher. You know, the important things. We've talked on the phone a few times but just about day to day happenings. I would also like to find out about his relationship history. Has he been in a long term relationship? How long did it last? Why did it break up? What is he looking for in a guy? How does he feel about monogamy? I doubt I'll get to find out all of these things. And it's a bit much for a second date maybe. In any case, I'm sure we'll talk about more substantial topics. Should I be nervous about the second date? Does even having a second date mean anything more then just a second date?

Hmm…should you have sex on the second date?

The Sexiest Part Of A Man

I've been thinking a lot lately about beautiful bodies, male bodies of course. Thinking about all the parts of a man's body I miss and how sexy they can be. Some might say that a man's cock is the sexiest part. I would have to disagree. Some might say his earlobes, or his nipples might be the sexiest part. Again, I have to disagree. While those parts are wonderful during a hot and steamy session, I find different areas of a man's body to be sexy.

One area I really find sexy is the small of a man's back. If the man is really in good shape and is smooth, I can run my hand over the small of his back and feel the smoothness and the curves and really get in a sexual mood. I've had the pleasure of experiencing men like this in the past. If the small of the back curves up to meet the beautiful round globes of his ass, even better. Oh, the things I can do with my tongue in this area. It just gets me going.

A man with a beautiful ass with the right curve at the small of his back most likely has those ass dimples that I find so attractive. They arch at such an angle your hand could fill up the empty space. I find this whole area, the ass, the dimples, the small of the back to so sexy. Maybe it's because I'm a top, I don't know but seeing a really hot man laying face down showing a muscular smooth ass just does it for me.

Damn, am I horny or what?

Tired

Well the first day is over. It started at 4:30 AM. Yes, during the school year I actually get up at 4:30 AM. And people wonder why I go to bed at 9:30. I need a good 7 hours of sleep. Tonight, however, I feel like I need 12! It's not like I have to be at work early or anything. My arrival time is officially 8:30 but I like to get there early and get all my work done so that I can leave when the last kid walks out the door. It was a long day but everything went fine. The kids were fine, the parents were fine, everything went as expected. Except for the last bus. It didn't arrive until 4:30. It was almost 5:00 before I got home. I have a few hours to relax and do a few things for school tomorrow and then I'm off to bed. The first day is always very tiring. It will get better. It always does.