Back Pain

My back is killing me! Thursday night I went to pick up a stack of books and turned just the wrong way and my back went out. Well, not actually out but the muscles tensed up and I've been in pain ever since. It doesn't hurt too much when I'm standing up or walking or laying down on my side but when I sit or go to stand up or bend whatsoever, the muscles tense and it hurts like hell! I've had a heating pad on it as much as I can and I'm taking Momentum (an over the counter pain pill for your back). This happens to me every once in awhile. It just takes a few days of being careful when bending over and taking it easy. It'll go away soon I hope. I was going to go bike riding this morning but there is no way I could have bend over while riding. When I could hardly get out of bed this morning, I decided I would not be going for a bike ride.

He's coming over for dinner tonight. I'm making some kind of chicken dish out of a box (well, it didn't come with chicken). I'm NOT a cook. But this I can make. We're going to go shopping and then watch a movie. Should be a low key evening.

In The Night Stand

Another in the series of “What's In Your…” photos. Here you will see the contents of my night stands. The photo on the left is what's in the night stand on the left side of my bed. On the right you will see what's in the night stand on the right side of my bed.

The left side night stand contains all of the sex paraphernalia. Click on the picture to see a larger view. You will see some condoms, lube, a vibrator (I never use it..it was a gift), and some magazines. I'm not one to look at or read dirty magazines but this stack was left on the shelf in the trash room at my mother's condo (believe it or not) and I didn't think they should be thrown away. So I just grabbed them and brought them home. I figured I could read the stories or scan some of pictures sometime. I have done neither of these things since I've had them though.

On the right side you will find the book I'm currently reading, my reading glasses, all the remotes to the TV, VCR, DVD, and the Bose radio. Also, a book mark and a candle lighter. Nothing really exciting in that night stand. I actually usually keep the book right on top but thought I'd put in in the draw so it looked like I had something in there. The candle lighter has been used so rarely. I wonder if it even works anymore. Sometimes when I get romantic (it's been so long since I've had a romantic evening in my bedroom) I like to light candles for the effect.

So…what's in YOUR night stand?

Book Time

This afternoon I finished reading Father's Day by Philip Galanes. This is his first novel. Very well done for his first. The book was about a guy who goes through a year in his life after his father committed suicide. Throughout the story he goes back in time and tells stories of his childhood and young adulthood. These stories are told in the middle of current day stories about his mother, his dealing with his father's death, his dating experiences, and his addiction to sex chat phone lines. The anecdotes of the sex chat line are scary at times and remind me of when I was a slut and used to hook up a lot. However, the sex club experiences he talks about are alarming. It was a good book and it held my interest from beginning to end. I look forward to his next novel should there be one.

Next up is The Salt Point by Paul Russell. Earlier this year I read War Against The Animals by the same author and enjoyed it. The Barnes and Noble book review has this to say about The Salt Point:

“From the award-winning author of The Coming Storm comes the brilliantly conceived and precisely rendered novel The Salt Point, which explores the lives of four people-Anatole, Leigh, Chris, and Lydia-and their intermingled and unwinding desires. Set in a Poughkeepsie mall, the Main Street to a new generation, the novel follows these characters as they achieve their oddly triumphant lives redolent with loss and hope, humor and sadness, union and alienation. As promises are diminished and futures are abandoned, all four are hurtled toward that place in which everything is transmuted-the salt point.”

Not much to go on with that review. I'll read it anyway and of course give my opinion when I'm finished. I love being off in the summer. It allows me more time to read, which I love doing. Especially when I find books interesting enough to read. I've still got quite a stack on my night stand shelf to read. I'm sure by the end of the summer I will have read another 3 or 4 books. Reading takes you away from the world around you. I find myself living vicariously through these stories. If you aren't a reader, pick up a book and become one.

Constitutional Amendment

According to the Washington Post:

“The Republican-controlled Senate yesterday blocked a proposed constitutional amendment to bar same-sex marriage, effectively killing the White House-backed measure for the rest of this year and handing President Bush a big election-year defeat. The vote was 48 to 50 against bringing the initiative to a vote, 12 short of the 60 needed to limit debate and move toward final action on the amendment. It would have taken a two-thirds majority — 19 votes more than the GOP had yesterday — to pass the amendment itself.”

I guess it's dead for this year. I'm glad. Now we can move on to more important issues like getting Bush out of office.