On March 30th, Brad told me he didn’t want to be in a relationship and didn’t think he had the time to devote to one. He just wanted to be friends that go out. So I said fine. We’ll be friends that go out from time to time. Since then I’ve seen him once. We went out to lunch while I was on Spring Break. We e-mailed and talked on the phone a few times. Then on April 18th, he called to go out to dinner but my brother was visiting so I couldn’t go. I called him the next day to apologize for not being able to go to dinner. He wasn’t home so I left a message. That was the last time I heard his voice. Haven’t gotten a call or an e-mail from him. I guess he doesn’t want to be friends after all. I hope he has a nice life. Here are some possible reasons why Brad hasn’t called or e-mailed.

1. He met someone new and doesn’t have time to spend with friends.

2. He realized he’s straight and is dating a woman.

3. He is so swamped at work that he doesn’t have time to call or e-mail.

4. He never wanted to be friends in the first place.

5. He has been stuck under a heavy piece of furniture for two weeks and has been unable to call or e-mail.