Odds and Ends

I'm on spring break this week. I have lots of time to do many of the errands that need to get done when you have time. Since my mother is working on selling her house and buying a new house I decided to spend some time with her. I went to my mother's this morning to begin going through things she wants to get rid of before she moves. She put a contract on a condo this afternoon. I have my fingers crossed that they will accept it. The condo market is very hot right now. She may be out bid. Let's hope not. So she's already begun to get rid of things and think of who to give things to. She won't have the space in her new place for the amount of items she's collected over the 39 years she's lived in her house. We have a big family and my mother has 16 place settings of her good china. She knows she'll never use the full set again so she gave me 8 complete settings. She knows I won't get married and have a china pattern picked out. I happen to really like her pattern so I'm glad she gave me a complete set. Now I have some really nice dishes for the next time I have a dinner party. Of course I don't have real silverware to accompany the dishes. Maybe when she's ready to part with her silverware I'll get 8 settings of that too. She did however, give me 5 silver knifes and forks that belonged to my grandmother's set of silverware. I'm not sure why she didn't have a whole set. The entire set must have been split between my aunts when my grandmother died. Who knows. She also gave me lemonade pitcher that my grandmother used to use when we were kids and visited her in Indiana. I remembered the pitcher instantly when I saw it. It's funny the things you remember. I have plans to be back at my mother's house several times before she moves to help clean things out and pack things up. I'm such a good son.

Donut Jelly provides a fun link to the Create your own South Park Character. I don't watch South Park on a regular basis but I have watched it in the past and find it to be amusing. If I had to pick a character that I was most like I think I'd pick Kyle. I don't know why. I just think I'm like him. So anyway, I went to the site. I thought it might be some kind of site where you put in your personality traits and it would create a character based on you. When I got to the site I realized you simply pick the different elements you want to include in your character. I played around with it and created a few characters. Most of them looked like previously created South Park characters. So then I decided to try to make one that looked like me. What you see is what I created. Kinda fun if you have the time to play around. I'm on spring break so I have the time.

Happy 33rd birthday to Dogpoet. I check out his blog from time to time and enjoy reading it.

My arms and chest are hurting today because I decided to start lifting weights. I'm only doing my arms and chest. I don't want to be a big muscle guy but I would like my arms and chest to be a little bigger. We'll see how long I can keep this up. It hurts.

Religion

It's Palm Sunday. Many Christians went to church today and got palm frones. I'm not sure why. “The Ten Commandments” is on ABC tonight. This makes me think too much of religion. When I was 12 years old, I asked my father, “If god created everything in the world, who created god?” He could not answer that question. I asked our minister at the time who created god and he said no one. He's always been there. My doubts about religion began at that time. Since that time I've always considered myself an agnostic. Without doing any major research on the idea, I still consider myself an agnostic. I decided it was time to find out exactly what agnostics think about god, the bible, and religion. In doing my research, I found an interesting web site that lays it out pretty clearly.

What Is an agnostic?

An agnostic thinks it impossible to know the truth in matters such as God and the future life with which Christianity and other religions are concerned. Or, if not impossible, at least impossible at the present time.

I would agree with this statement. I don't believe that it can be proved at this time that a god exists.

Are agnostics atheists?

No. An atheist, like a Christian, holds that we can know whether or not there is a God. The Christian holds that we can know there is a God; the atheist, that we can know there is not. The Agnostic suspends judgment, saying that there are not sufficient grounds either for affirmation or for denial. At the same time, an Agnostic may hold that the existence of God, though not impossible, is very improbable; he may even hold it so improbable that it is not worth considering in practice

After reading this definition, I do consider myself an agnostic. I interpret this to mean that right now I can neither acknowledge that god exists or deny his existence. There simply isn't enough proof to decide either way. Since I'm a very practical person and feel that I need hard evidence to prove most things I believe in, I don't believe in the existence of god. At this point in time, it is impossible to prove his existence.

How does an agnostic regard the Bible?

An agnostic regards the Bible exactly as enlightened clerics regard it. He does not think that it is divinely inspired; he thinks its early history legendary, and no more exactly true than that in Homer; he thinks its moral teaching sometimes good, but sometimes very bad.

I definitely have my issues with the bible. For as long as we can remember, the bible has been used to discriminate, segregate, and control the masses. I consider the bible to be a work of fiction. I feel the stories were created to control the uneducated masses of the time. There were a handful of very intelligent men at the time who wanted to have control over lots of people. They created these stories and proclaimed they were the teachings of god and you must follow them. Do not question them. Just believe. Because the people at that time didn't know any better they went along with it and believed it to be true. I agree that some of the stories do teach decent morals and ways to lead a decent life, but I don't think they should be considered as handed down from some god who is the absolute authority on life. At the same time there are many stories in the bible that are truly awful and should never be considered worth following.

Religion and the bible were simply created to control people. All the major religions basically follow the same idea. There is a god. He knows all. He should be worshiped. You should do as his teachings suggest, lest you end in some kind of hell. And the most important one, give your religion money to support their work.

Religions in the past were created to control the masses. I feel religions of today continue to do the same thing. However, some religions use their power to control politics. Look at the religious right and consider their control on so much of our politics. Of course I don't agree with this at all. I think politics should be void of religion. I also feel strongly that government should be void of religion as well. I know it won't change any time in the near future. Look at the middle east and several countries in that region of the world. They are dominated by religious doctrine. Then again, look at the educational level of the people in those areas. I feel the more highly educated people are, the less reliance they have on religion.

Religion isn't all bad however, think about the comfort it gives those who have no other intellectual way of dealing with problems in their lives. It does provide comfort for those. I think about practical ways to solve my problems without relying on pray to provide comfort. I can figure out what is wrong and how to fix it without praying to a god to give me guidance. The thought process in my mind provides the comfort and answers I seek. There is absolutely no proof that praying actually solved a problem or saved a life. It's all speculation. People want to believe that by praying they some how have control over what's going on in their lives. Try working on the problem yourself. Think. Solve. Do. Don't rely on something that doesn't exist.

I also asked my father and my minister when I was 12 why we have death, disease, and specifically why we have bugs that do us harm (hey, I was 12). I thought if god was so strong and created everything why would he created bugs that sucked our blood. I also couldn't understand why he would create diseases that would kill so many people. My father could not give me a real answer. However, my minister at the time told me that god creates these troubles in the universe to create diversity. He tried to say that if everything was copasetic then life would not be interesting. No one would experience pain or grief. Nice idea but I wondered why not? Why not have everything be great? Why should people experience grief and pain, etc.? If he has the power to eliminate these concepts from the human mind, why wouldn't he? No good answers were given. Of course I now know that death, disease, and those bugs that cause us harm are really created by nature and evolution. No one god created all of these things. Science has been able to trace the existence of most forms of life so far and they've done an excellent job of doing so.

Religion breeds ignorance, intolerance, and discrimination. The adverse affects of religion out way the benefits of religion. Religion should and will probably die a slow death. Thus ends my diatribe on religion.

Odds and Ends

My mother accepted a contract on her house today. It went for $385,000. That's $16,000 over the asking price. There was a biding war between two contracts so she accepted the best one. The highest price for a one and one half bath house in her neighborhood. She goes to closing in less then a month. I'm very glad it went quickly and for such a high amount. I'm not at all bothered by the fact that she sold her house. My brother, however, is totally pissed off that she sold it. Maybe he's got some childhood memories that he can't get over. I remember different things I guess. I remember planting a tree and a bush with my mom when I was much younger and they are now both very tall. I'll remember things like that as well as family gatherings but I don't think I'll miss the place like my brother will.

Junk e-Mail

I must get 20-25 junk e-mails every day. What is up with that? I am constantly having to empty my trash just to clear out my mail box. Apple has a great junk e-mail filter on their e-mail program but they put the e-mails in a junk folder for you to check out and delete later. I guess I could set it to automatically delete them but what if I'm missing something? What if an e-mail that I'm meant to get actually slips through and gets put in the junk folder? So I have it set to go right to the junk folder and I manually delete them myself. But I'm doing this everyday. How many e-mails must I see about penis enlargement (not that we all don't want larger dicks, but please!), prescription drugs online, low mortgage rates, etc. I'm so sick of seeing these junk e-mails. And they are mostly from the same senders. Haven't they gotten the message that since I haven't gone to their site and bought something that I'm not interested? I won't even click on that “remove me” link because then they will see my address as an active address and keep sending me more. Is that true though? I mean, if you actually click on the remove me link, does it actually remove you from the list? Has anyone ever looked into that? And what about that spam legislation that was talked about awhile ago? Shouldn't I be getting less junk mail instead of more? I don't know what the recent law says but can't I sue some of these spamers and get a new computer out of it at least? I'm just so sick of my e-mail folders getting crammed with this shit. Before I got my own domain name, my ISP sent me a message saying my e-mail box was full and I'd have to empty it before getting any new e-mail. I couldn't believe it. I never save mail on the server. I always remove it. Sure enough, I went to the server and I had hundreds of junk e-mails that I had deleted from my local computer but not off the server. So now from time to time I have to go to the server and delete the mail so as not to get filled up with junk e-mail. I already have it set in my e-mail program to delete mail from the sever that is older then a month. But they send so much crap out that it gets filled up before it's able to delete it automatically. I thought I was being smart by creating a junk e-mail address and only using that address when I go to websites so that if they put it on some list I would know where it's coming from and could ignore that e-mail. I guess I'm just really frustrated with always having so much junk e-mail every time my e-mail program opens up for the first time of the day. I guess I'll just have to accept it or delete my addresses and start over. Who knows.

On The Market

My mother put her house on the market yesterday. In 24 hours of having it on the market she's had 8 people through her house and two contracts being written tonight. She is frantic and doesn't know what she's going to do. She wants to move to a condo but hasn't found one for sale that she likes. She thinks she won't have any place to live once the house sells. I told her things would move very quickly once she put it on the market. I suggested she go ahead and sell her house, move in with my sister, and take her time finding a place she likes. She's going to pay cash for her condo so it's not like she has to move quickly if she's not ready. But the condo market in Northern Virginia is so red hot right now it's very hard to find one that doesn't already have a contract on it or is what she's looking for. I live in a two high rise complex and there is nothing for sale in our complex. Condos here sell in 24 hours and usually for higher then the asking price. When I think what I could sell my condo for considering what I paid for it, it makes me sick. Of course if I were to sell my place, I wouldn't be able to buy anything. Even thought I'd make an unbelievable profit on my place, it wouldn't be enough to buy something in this area that I could afford. So I won't be moving anytime soon. Then again, it's not me I'm thinking about. It's my mom. I think she's stressing out about how fast this is moving. I've talked to her 3 times on the phone today and she's been frazzled each time. I tried to assure her that it would all work out and she wouldn't have any problems. But as I've learned, she has to come to that conclusion on her own. She hasn't had too much emotional stress about selling her house though. She's lived there for 39 years. I've been trying to get her to move for a few years but some of my brothers and sisters don't want her to move. She needs to move though. The yard work, the up keep, it's just too much for a 72 year old woman. She has a lawn service and has no problem calling to have things serviced but if she was in a condo where most of that would be taken care for her, it would be much better for her. I'm sure I'll talk to her one more time before I go to bed. I talked to her just a few minutes before sitting down to write this and she was waiting for yet another real estate agent to bring some prospective buyers to see the house. If she's really lucky all the contracts will get into a bidding war and she'll get way more then the asking price. We'll see! I'll keep ya posted.